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leprincedunoir:

Are you aware of the croptop movement? #croptopmovement2k14
I just dont get it. It is all over tumblr. Boys are just going crop top. Everywhere. And it makes me wonder is this a real thing? Is this reality? Is this a mew fashion statement that is here to stay? I even saw a straight black rapper wearing one at coachella. Or is this just a fad? Is this just 2014? Is it like a thing for just this season? Should I join in? Should i purchase a crop top? How did this even start? Who begins these “movements?” Why? Do I have the stomach for the crop top? Do people even want to see my stomach? Can I pull it off? I have a flat stomach nut it is not toned …. What if disgusting fat people jump on this train? No one wants to see that!!! But the crop top… How!?!?!?!?

Fuck you. You’re the disgusting one. Keep your hateful fat shaming shit to yourself.

Jan 6

Feminist Logic

feminists-oppress-me:

Me: Oh, so you wear makeup for yourself?

Feminist: Yes, it’s not that hard to understand. 

Me: So, do you wear makeup at home then?

Feminist: Only when I’m posting selfies. 

Wow, you’re fucking disgusting.

Even if someone actually said this, do you really think that feminists want to live completely separate from all people around them?  That feminists don’t deserve positive interactions (aka: attention) from other human beings? 

After that last post, I sincerely hope this blog is indeed satirical. Dismissing an entire subset of rape victims as "ammunition to use in Internet arguments" is downright appalling, and spits in the face of everything you seem to stand for. I completely get the intention to debunk claims made by fedora-wearing Redditors and MRAs, but dismissing and denying unrelated victims is not the way to do so.

Anonymous

social-justice-wario:

Wario thinks you have gravely misunderstood what Wario was saying. Wario obviously acknowledges the men can be raped, just as any half-decent person should be able to acknowledge. Wario has all the compassion in the world for male survivors because of the uniquely difficult situations and stigma they face.

The problem is that anti-feminists, MRAs, and anti-SJs and what-have-you don’t actually care about them. They only use male survivors as a quick ploy to try and debunk feminist assertions, to derail discussions of female survivors, and they don’t actually care about male survivors as people. You don’t see MRAs outside protesting the poor treatment of male survivors or raising funds for male abuse shelters.

Social Justice Wario is the kind of asshole I like.

http://just-simply-stopit.tumblr.com/post/68508171939/terminalkitty-rustic-ghost-terminalkitty

just-simply-stopit:

I’m done with you, it also seems like you didn’t read the entire post. or maybe you weren’t able to comprehend it. I can see that you try to be fight for equality for both genders, but you have just done what every feminist does.

Good thing you’re done with me.  I’d hate for you to have to keep wearing your fingers out justifying your bullshit, linking to articles by organizations that are male dominated, misrepresenting what feminists say, finding anonymous people for you to accuse of being man-hating feminists, and hoping no one actually checks your links to see if any of it’s factual.  And eventually, the lack of empathy you have for the lived experiences of real women will make it hard for people to keep believing that you care about equality at all, as opposed to just silencing women.

So I died

And I don’t recommend it to anyone.  It sucked even worse watching Pocahontas. 

But the thing is, there’s so many assholes on tumblr, I can’t go into the light or whatever.  That’s fine.  It’s not like I was looking forward to eternal rest or anything.  You fuckers keep posting bullshit and I’ll just hang around and haunt my human.

rustic-ghost:

terminalkitty:

martin-snowman:

exchangingthings:

lifelibertyandthepursuitof5sos:

just-simply-stopit:

cannotgiveafuck:

just-simply-stopit:

gayyourlifemustbe:

just-simply-stopit:

We do not have to hold the same strengths. We do not have to face the same struggles. We can be different and still be equal.
This is something that feminists just cannot wrap around their deluded minds.

But we have to be equal fist and when women make up 50% of the population but only 77 cents to every dollar that’s when you know it’s not equal When men feel entitled to sex because women are taught to give sex, men objectify women because women are taught to become objects, when men are taught to be heroic and emotionless protagonists while women are taught to be damsels in distress to a man’s story, a piece to be won thats when you know it’s not equal When basic reproductive rights are denied to half of a population and we still make it sound like its necessary to do so that’s when you know it’s not equal at all When rape is an epidemic but people would rather make up definitions and blame the victim that’s when you know it’s not equal Yes we’re born with different genitalia but for gods sake it shouldn’t mean women have to be treated like sex objects, prizes to be won or helpless minions to your departed fantasies


“and when women make up 50% of the population but only 77 cents to every dollar that’s when you know it’s not equal” 

  wow. are you seriously going to use this idiotic argument? wage gap is not a “we want women to be oppressed, let’s pay them less cause we just hate woman” issue. it has nothing to do with gender at all. if you ignorant fucks can’t understand this, i feel immensely sorry for you. if women earn less than men, why don’t we just higher them for everything? we would be saving money that way, right? read this non fucking biased document and educate yourself you ignorant piece of bullshit. http://www.consad.com/content/reports/Gender%20Wage%20Gap%20Final%20Report.pdf

“When men feel entitled to sex because women are taught to give sex, men objectify women because women are taught to become objects, when men are taught to be heroic and emotionless protagonists while women are taught to be damsels in distress to a man’s story, a piece to be won that’s when you know it’s not equal”             

  if i ever heard this come out of your filthy mouth irl, i would have backhanded you so fucking hard your teeth would scatter the wall. how dare you insult me and my gender that way. TAUGHT TO GIVE SEX TO MEN! fuck you and your beliefs. i am independent, and nothing in this fucking country tells me that when a guy wants my ass that i have to bend over. fuck you. and thought to become objects? wtf does that even mean?? i am only raised to become an object in men’s eyes and i have no free will? TAKE YOUR SEXIST ASS OUT OF THIS LIFE, YOU DISGUSTING FUCK! i am anti feminist because i know that the law says i am  not oppressed. i am anti feminist because the only ones spilling sexist bullshit are feminists like you. FUCK YOU, YOU SEXIST CUNT. STOP FUCKING TELLING ME I AM OPPRESSED! and never in my life have i met a man that feels he is entitled to sex. in fact, every guy i’ve known are so scared to talk to girls in fear of being called a creep, pervert, or “nice guy” so fuck the fuck off. no one is taughtt to be anything in this country. we have free will. it is free. so wtf are you talking about, dumb fuck?

“When rape is an epidemic but people would rather make up definitions and blame the victim that’s when you know it’s not equal”

 i don’t even know where you are going with this nonsense but, rape goes both ways. IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT A GENDER ISSUE! STOP MAKING IT ABOUT JUST THE POOR WOMEN. Since Feminism is all about playing the persecuted, weak, helpless victim, feminists have promoted the fantasy that we live a culture that “teaches men to rape”. But nowhere is rape taught as acceptable.Rape is illegal and is seen as a crime by all people in society. Feminists confuse dominance and submission themes as rape. Only rape is rape. Posing in a picture for perfume is not rape.

“Yes we’re born with different genitalia but for gods sake it shouldn’t mean women have to be treated like sex objects, prizes to be won or helpless minions to your departed fantasies”

 Okay, srsly?           
Feminism makes up things, or forces women into a victim role, needing to be helped and pushed up rather than earning it.
Feminism tells me I’m weak and I need handouts because of my gender. Feminism tells me I can’t stand up and empower myself because I need help with every little thing. Feminism tells me men are all sexist and rapists and I should be scared just walking outside cause that’s pretty much what you told me. Feminism tells me I can’t be sexist or horrible to men because previously women were oppressed. Feminism tells me that’s equality.
Feminism tells men they need to be passive and let women lead, that they shouldn’t have ambition. Feminism tells men that they’re stupid and are sexist and horrible and rapists because they don’t support the movement that supports the removal of their rights. Feminism tells men they need to apologize because of their gender, something they can’t change. Feminism tells men that they didn’t work to get into high positions in society, that they were just handed them. Feminism tells men they can’t be raped, abused or hurt because they’re men. Feminism tells men they’re little more than dildos that help us reproduce. Feminism tells men this is equality.
                    and these are just some of the minor reasons why i am very against it. I ACTUALLY WANT EQUALITY AND WE DO NOT HAVE TO FACE THE SAME PROBLEMS TO ACHIEVE THAT!


While your message at first is clear and cool, your jab at feminism is clearly misguided. If you seriously think its just ‘buh womenz bringing men down and wanting to rule the world!” then you’re reeeeallllyyyy misinformed and should probably get off tumblr or educate yourself with better sources.
>”If women earn less than men, hire them for everything and save money” ….what? How does this solve anything? 
>”i am independent, and nothing in this fucking country tells me that when a guy wants my ass that i have to bend over” Well congrats. YOU have never felt pressured to give sex, YOU have never noticed the hundreds of commercials, media attention, and cases of women/girls being pursued, pressured, drugged, and coerced into sex. And if you’re seriously in denial that there is NO informal/social education is taught to certain genders concerning certain aspects (like sex) then it’s no wonder you’re misguided.
>”But nowhere is rape taught as acceptable.Rape is illegal and is seen as a crime by all people in society.” I would loooovvee to believe this. But in every questioning of female rape victims, they’re always asked what theyre wearing, what theyre past experiences were. The amount of ACTUAL PERPETRATORS of rape in jail compared to them being prosecuted? Yea, a lot less. Just search the issue and pages of stories will come up of girls who are too scared to come out bc of what people will say, of girls who have tried to get help and were turned away bc oh the boy who raped them was a son of someone in power. And yes, MEN GET raped too. Sometimes by women. But if you look men are the majority of the rapists. This isn’t even just a ‘feminist issue’ its a fucking society issue. And you denying it helps NO ONE.
>The entirety of your last paragraphs are bullshit. If THAT is the message you get from feminism, you are listening to the wrong people or your judgement is sooooo clouded everything you hear is turned around. Feminism doesn’t PUT women as victims, it points out how they are portrayed in society (media, books, movies, careers, general home life). It doesn’t tell men to be bowing down and serving, it points out how taught masculinity (of ALL kinds) is harmful to EVERYBODY. 
Your view of this isn’t uncommon, and it’s quite sad it exists. Though it comes from somewhere and it’s sad that people claiming to be part of feminism is making you believe it. But just like those feminists who view the entirety of man as awful, potential rapists, your view of them as rabid, man hating, villains. 

>”If women earn less than men, hire them for everything and save money” ….what? How does this solve anything? 

My comment: I didn’t say that to “solve anything” (legally there isn’t anything to solve). i said that to exemplify how stupid you people are for believing in a gender-based wage-gap. Let me dumb it down for you. What i was saying is that if there was a gender-based wage gap (which there isn’t) companies/business owners would hire women more for everything because they would have to pay women less for the work they do. BUT, because there ISN’T a gender-based wage gap (or law that states that women will get paid less than men) THAT SCENARIO DOESN’T HAPPEN. Do you understand? Since there is NO GENDER-BASED WAGE GAP, a scenario such as “women being hired more because business owners and companies would  legally get to pay them less” DOES NOT HAPPEN. 
The wage gap is a result of  women’s choices:

Women sacrifice pay for all sorts of reasons including security, safety, flexibility, and fulfillment.


Men choose higher-paying fields and occupations.


Women more likely to choose careers in lower paying fields such as education and health care


Men are more likely than women to pursue areas of specialization with higher levels of stress.


Men are also far more likely to choose careers that involve physical labor, overnight and weekend shifts, dangerous conditions, as well as uncomfortable, isolated, outdoor, and undesirable locations.


Men work more hours(9%) than women


Women spending fewer hours than men at work doing the same jobs, such as taking more sick and vacation time, working less overtime and fewer nights, weekends, and holidays.


Read the fucking link


Instead of pursuing a degree in Gender/Women’s studies maybe you should help close the wage gap by pursuing a degree in Computer science, Construction, Petroleum Engineering and other stressful, dirty and dangerous male dominated job.

>”i am independent, and nothing in this fucking country tells me that when a guy wants my ass that i have to bend over” Well congrats. YOU have never felt pressured to give sex, YOU have never noticed the hundreds of commercials, media attention, and cases of women/girls being pursued, pressured, drugged, and coerced into sex. And if you’re seriously in denial that there is NO informal/social education is taught to certain genders concerning certain aspects (like sex) then it’s no wonder you’re misguided.

My comment: Exactly how is feminism going to help a girl who was pressured into having sex? Seriously, tell me how feminism is going to give her personality a 180, and turn her from a doormat into a person who doesn’t give into pressure. I have noticed all those things and guess what! I’VE NOTICED IT HAPPENS TO BOTH FUCKING GENDERS! ever heard “all guys want is sex” , “dude are you still a virgin? What a loser”. Have you ever seen the movies, commercials, music  videos where a guy is just standing there with his shirt off or half naked while a girl uses and abuses him (i.e drugs, whips, standing on him, hitting him, leashes, calling him a dog) to “make things sexy” (simple examples would be: beyonce, rihanna, marina and the diamonds) 
Both genders have attacks against our desires, men aren’t portrayed as being with larger women, or very unattractive women. Men are portrayed as being big, tall, and/or muscled, with hot super model babes on their arm. That forces a standard that they feel they have to live up to. Women are portrayed as willing to be with a man because of a certain trait and liking someone’s looks is usually frowned upon, unless, of course she fixes the man and he gets smarter, stronger, kinder, whatever.

BOTH GENDERS FACE THESE ISSUES! (but feminists only care about the females and pin the problem on males-as you have just done.)

>”But nowhere is rape taught as acceptable.Rape is illegal and is seen as a crime by all people in society.” I would loooovvee to believe this. But in every questioning of female rape victims, they’re always asked what theyre wearing, what theyre past experiences were. The amount of ACTUAL PERPETRATORS of rape in jail compared to them being prosecuted? Yea, a lot less. Just search the issue and pages of stories will come up of girls who are too scared to come out bc of what people will say, of girls who have tried to get help and were turned away bc oh the boy who raped them was a son of someone in power. And yes, MEN GET raped too. Sometimes by women. But if you look men are the majority of the rapists. This isn’t even just a ‘feminist issue’ its a fucking society issue. And you denying it helps NO ONE.


My commentary: I am not, and never did deny that people get raped, wtf? what i said: “rape goes both ways. IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT A GENDER ISSUE!” The problem is that feminists (like you, as you have just done this) are trying to pin rape on the male gender and trying to minimize/erase male victims and women perpetrators. An example of how you, a feminist, have just proven my point would be what you have just written: “And yes, MEN GET raped too. Sometimes by women. But if you look men are the majority of the rapists.” see what you’ve just done there? I applaud you for at least acknowledging that men get raped though. There is also something called innocent until PROVEN guilty. Look it up, it may answer your concerns as to why officers question victims of any crime. ^^



Feminists believe that all men are potential rapists. That we should simply tell them rape is bad (it’s not like it’s illegal or anything), that you can somehow be a good person and a rapist simultaneously.


Feminists deny that men are raped at all, let alone just as often. If not more.


Feminists have erased many female victims due to the “only men rape” paradigm.


HERE’S SOME  FOOD FOR THOUGHT, HOW BOUT YOU EDUCATE YOURSELF A BIT MORE SWEETIE:   

blatant erasure of male rape victims by the law (feminists fought for this) 

“You wanna talk about rape culture?

Rape culture is women getting away with rape because “the man probably liked it.”

Rape culture is women getting away with child molestation because “the boy probably liked it.”

Rape culture is women believing that women don’t rape.

Rape culture is women believing that women can’t rape.

Rape culture is a woman raping a man and then demanding that he pay child support for the child he did not consent to father.

Rape culture is the lack of “rape by envelopment,” being classified by national rape laws.

Rape culture is believing that all men are one event away from being rapists.

Rape culture is not wanting people to be prepared to defend themselves in the instance of an attack. 

If you believe otherwise, you are an idiot and, more than likely, a bigot. Men do not rape, rapists rape, because they are mentally disturbed individuals who do not care about the laws that we have in place against rape. You want to know why I don’t agree with Feminism? Because Feminism does not believe in equal consequences for equal crimes. “ -oldmancaleb


this man was sexually assaulted but no one gives a fuck becuse you fuck tards think and preach “only men rape” “teach men not to rape”


and what the public had to say about this..?


50% of homeless youth reported being sexually abused by a female. From: It’s Not What You Think: Sexually Exploited Youth in British Columbia.http://www.nursing.ubc.ca/PDFs/ItsNotWhatYouThink.pdf


 one in 6 men are sexually abused before turning 18.


CDC - National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey 2010

total amount of rapists including made to penetrate= 2,537,000


total amount of female rapists under these terms=1,003,464


total percentage of female rapists=39.55%  [which fits right into the roughly 40% number on the poster]


total amount of victims of rape including made to penetrate=2,537,000


total amount of male victims=1,267,000


total percentage of male victims of rape=49.94%  [0.6% less than a full 50%, however, those numbers of 1,267,000 for women and 1,267,000 for men are weighted both at 1.1%, so that’s where a nice round 50% comes from] - cobblepot

RAPE ISN’T A GENDER ISSUE! IT’S NOT A WOMEN’S ISSUE!!! NOT ONLY MEN RAPE! RAPISTS RAPE! YOU DO NOT “TEACH MEN HOW TO NOT FUCKING RAPE!!” YOU CAN NOT TEACH A MURDERER HOW TO NOT FUCKING MURDER! ANY GENDER CAN RAPE, ONLY RAPISTS RAPE, RAPISTS CAN COME IN ANY GENDER, SHAPE AND FUCKING SIZE! STOP! ~okay hun ^^

>The entirety of your last paragraphs are bullshit. If THAT is the message you get from feminism, you are listening to the wrong people or your judgement is sooooo clouded everything you hear is turned around. Feminism doesn’t PUT women as victims, it points out how they are portrayed in society (media, books, movies, careers, general home life). It doesn’t tell men to be bowing down and serving, it points out how taught masculinity (of ALL kinds) is harmful to EVERYBODY


My Commentary: That is the message i get from every feminist post I’ve seen and even the bull shit that guy wrote on my post. Masculinity is just as harmful as femininity. If you want to erase masculinity, you better be working on erasing femininity. both aspects have their good and bad point. That is yet another thing you feminists do not seem to understand. Men and women are portrayed in certain ways (good and bad), both genders face problems socially, both genders have their privileges. Every feminist post i see talks about how “i’m oppressed” as though they want me to seek oppression. Feminists baby women, an example would be in the case of drunken consent or, in feminists eyes, “drunken rape”: 


Feminists label women as weak, stupid imbeciles who can’t even do what is expected of a child. Here I talk about the instance on drunken “rape”. it is absolutely the most deeming argument that i have ever seen and makes me feel ashamed. I mean women actually hold up signs and scream that “I’m aren’t responsible for what they do or what happens to them while I’m are drunk.” “I don’t have to protect themselves from psychos trying to rape me…tell psychos not to rape.” Why the hell do you think we tell children not to talk to strangers and to look both ways before crossing the streets. Why don’t we just tell peodophiles not to kidnap children and tell drivers not to run them over. Children are expected more of than women are in feminists eyes. that is so sick and stupid. Also why is it that a woman who is drunk of her rocker and has sex with someone she normally wouldn’t have sex with can state rape and land his sorry ass in prison, but a man who is drunk off his rocker and does the same thing with a woman, as to suck it up and label it as “a bad night” or something. that’s really freaking stupid. in the eyes of feminists, a woman who is intoxicated and  does something she normally wouldn’t do when sober is the victim…but when a man is intoxicated and does something he normally wouldn’t do it’s still his fault, his actions, a responsibility he has to own up to? what!? how is that freaking fair!? that is not only unjust, but also deeming to women. They are saying while I’m drunk i am not capable of being responsible for me…but while a man is drunk he is capable for being responsible for him (and in some instances me.)


Literally, feminists care more about a piece of dog shit on the side of the road than they care about men. A few examples would be: 

Feminists created the Duluth model for domestic violence that says only men commit domestic abuse and only women suffer it. Thanks to VAWA, if a man calls about an abusive spouse, he is himself arrested. 


Feminists control all the discourse on domestic violence while men can’t get a single penny for domestic violence shelters for male victims.


Feminists mock the massive suicide rate of men.


Feminists mock male domestic violence victims.


Feminists advocated for default mother custody.


Feminists ignoring and even praising women who physically abuse men

THAT IS NOT FUCKING EQUALITY! You seem to be the misguided one here. look up the actions of your own movement, CALL THEM OUT AND FIGHT AGAINST THEIR UNJUST AND SEXIST WAYS! That is what i do. so STFU. ~<3 


I’ve already reblogged this but it got better. 
This is why I am Anti-Feminist.
Feminism is inherently evil and promotes a message of hate. 
I think it’s time we start saying this more openly. 




it got alotbetter

This is fucking disgusting.  All you anti-feminist people are assholes.  You are worse than shit.
There are definitely asshole feminists.  But that doesn’t excuse your bullshit.
That’s all I can say on this right now because it’s just so fucking terrible.

>Anti-feminists use piles apon piles of facts and statistics to counter-attack feminist arguments, supported by multiple legitimate sources.
"UGH ANTI-FEMINIST ASSHOLES YOU’RE FULL OF SHIT"
I don’t even have a response to properly describe how stupid that is.

I was too angry at the bullshit last night to address the “facts.”  And let’s be honest, even if I take down every single “fact,” then the anti-feminists are still going to ignore it or make up other bullshit to support their position.  So what’s the point?But, just to prove my point on this, here you go.In response to that “unbiased” CONSAD report: http://amptoons.com/blog/2010/11/26/how-the-consad-report-on-the-wage-gap-masks-sexism-instead-of-measuring-it/You might also want to recognize that for that one single report that tries to explain away the wage gap, there are many, many reports and studies and evidence that has been shown again and again to prove that the gender wage gap exists: http://social.dol.gov/blog/myth-busting-the-pay-gap/Not just self-identified feminists, but many women see all men as potential rapists.  This isn’t a “fact” proving that feminism is a problem.  It’s shows that rape culture exists, not because women chose for it to exist (do you seriously think women want to be afraid all the time?).  It exists because many women have been sexually abused or assaulted, because they have escaped rape attempts, and have received unwanted attention from men over and over again.  Yeah, there are women who haven’t experienced this, but that doesn’t change the fact that many women do.No information provided showed that feminists don’t believe men can be raped.  Just somebody saying that feminists believe that, and linking to proof that men are raped.  Rape culture does result in men being raped, especially children and men in prison.  But that doesn’t change the reality of the fear women feel regarding potential rapists.  There was also no facts supporting the idea that feminists erase female rapists.There’s no facts supporting the statement that feminists fought for erasure of male rape victims. The Duluth model itself uses gender neutral language now (I don’t now if it always did).  http://www.theduluthmodel.org/about/index.html  Though the website does say it’s about ending violence against women specifically, which is problematic.Women who call the police in domestic abuse situations also can be arrested, whether they are the victims or the abusers.  It’s not a problem created by feminists.  It’s a problem created by fucking terrible law enforcement.The myth that women are the only victims of domestic abuse and sexual violence is not a feminist myth.  Until a couple years ago, the FBI defined rape, leaving out the possibiliy of male victims: http://feministing.com/2011/10/20/update-fbi-changes-official-definition-of-rape/Good feminists recognize that we need to dismantle the myth that men can’t be victims of violence.  An article about one mens shelter going bankrupt is not proof that feminism is bad.  That wasn’t the only shelter for battered men (no, I’m not linking to mens shelters, just like I wouldn’t link to currently operating womens shelters).  And women’s shelters get closed down for financial reasons too.A video of one woman being a piece of shit on youtube is not proof that feminists in general mock the suicide rate of men.  I could link you a hundred youtube videos of men laughing about women getting murdered and raped by men, but that wouldn’t prove anything to you, would it?Jezebel is shit, so don’t even link that.  Unless you want other people to start linking every page that comes up when you search for “wife beating jokes.”Yes, in the 19th century, feminists faught for mothers to get custody of children, because prior to that children were treated as property of the father.  Today, feminists generally feel that the belief that women are better caretakers is sexist, and sometimes actively fight against that: http://www.law.berkeley.edu/3158.htmThe same Jezebel article was used twice as a “fact” up there.Trust me, there are bad “feminists.”  There are horrible women out there who believe men deserve to be hurt, that they can’t be raped.  They also believe that transgender women are just men pretending to be women, and transgender men are women who are so oppressed they decided to give up being female. They believe that bisexuals don’t exist, and a very tiny handful of them believe all heterosexual sex is rape.  Those people are just as disgusting as you people who are trying to make male rape survivors your posterboys for anti-feminism.  They are just as worthless human beings as you are for trying to make a case that men and women are equal because they get raped equally.  
And, yeah, I didn’t respond to every “point” made in this thread, because most of them were presented just as personal experience and opinions. The only facts presented in this thing are the fact that men are raped and are victims of domestic abuse.  A fact that feminism does not deny.  A fact that supports the existence of rape culture.  The actual facts in this thread does not dismiss the relevance of feminism.

rustic-ghost:

terminalkitty:

martin-snowman:

exchangingthings:

lifelibertyandthepursuitof5sos:

just-simply-stopit:

cannotgiveafuck:

just-simply-stopit:

gayyourlifemustbe:

just-simply-stopit:

We do not have to hold the same strengths. We do not have to face the same struggles. We can be different and still be equal.

This is something that feminists just cannot wrap around their deluded minds.

But we have to be equal fist and when women make up 50% of the population but only 77 cents to every dollar that’s when you know it’s not equal
When men feel entitled to sex because women are taught to give sex, men objectify women because women are taught to become objects, when men are taught to be heroic and emotionless protagonists while women are taught to be damsels in distress to a man’s story, a piece to be won thats when you know it’s not equal
When basic reproductive rights are denied to half of a population and we still make it sound like its necessary to do so that’s when you know it’s not equal at all
When rape is an epidemic but people would rather make up definitions and blame the victim that’s when you know it’s not equal
Yes we’re born with different genitalia but for gods sake it shouldn’t mean women have to be treated like sex objects, prizes to be won or helpless minions to your departed fantasies

  • “and when women make up 50% of the population but only 77 cents to every dollar that’s when you know it’s not equal”

 wow. are you seriously going to use this idiotic argument? wage gap is not a “we want women to be oppressed, let’s pay them less cause we just hate woman” issue. it has nothing to do with gender at all. if you ignorant fucks can’t understand this, i feel immensely sorry for you. if women earn less than men, why don’t we just higher them for everything? we would be saving money that way, right? read this non fucking biased document and educate yourself you ignorant piece of bullshit. http://www.consad.com/content/reports/Gender%20Wage%20Gap%20Final%20Report.pdf

  • “When men feel entitled to sex because women are taught to give sex, men objectify women because women are taught to become objects, when men are taught to be heroic and emotionless protagonists while women are taught to be damsels in distress to a man’s story, a piece to be won that’s when you know it’s not equal”             

 if i ever heard this come out of your filthy mouth irl, i would have backhanded you so fucking hard your teeth would scatter the wall. how dare you insult me and my gender that way. TAUGHT TO GIVE SEX TO MEN! fuck you and your beliefs. i am independent, and nothing in this fucking country tells me that when a guy wants my ass that i have to bend over. fuck you. and thought to become objects? wtf does that even mean?? i am only raised to become an object in men’s eyes and i have no free will? TAKE YOUR SEXIST ASS OUT OF THIS LIFE, YOU DISGUSTING FUCK! i am anti feminist because i know that the law says i am  not oppressed. i am anti feminist because the only ones spilling sexist bullshit are feminists like you. FUCK YOU, YOU SEXIST CUNT. STOP FUCKING TELLING ME I AM OPPRESSED! and never in my life have i met a man that feels he is entitled to sex. in fact, every guy i’ve known are so scared to talk to girls in fear of being called a creep, pervert, or “nice guy” so fuck the fuck off. no one is taughtt to be anything in this country. we have free will. it is free. so wtf are you talking about, dumb fuck?

  • “When rape is an epidemic but people would rather make up definitions and blame the victim that’s when you know it’s not equal”

i don’t even know where you are going with this nonsense but, rape goes both ways. IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT A GENDER ISSUE! STOP MAKING IT ABOUT JUST THE POOR WOMEN. Since Feminism is all about playing the persecuted, weak, helpless victim, feminists have promoted the fantasy that we live a culture that “teaches men to rape”. But nowhere is rape taught as acceptable.Rape is illegal and is seen as a crime by all people in society. Feminists confuse dominance and submission themes as rape. Only rape is rape. Posing in a picture for perfume is not rape.

  • “Yes we’re born with different genitalia but for gods sake it shouldn’t mean women have to be treated like sex objects, prizes to be won or helpless minions to your departed fantasies”

Okay, srsly?           

Feminism makes up things, or forces women into a victim role, needing to be helped and pushed up rather than earning it.

Feminism tells me I’m weak and I need handouts because of my gender. Feminism tells me I can’t stand up and empower myself because I need help with every little thing. Feminism tells me men are all sexist and rapists and I should be scared just walking outside cause that’s pretty much what you told me. Feminism tells me I can’t be sexist or horrible to men because previously women were oppressed. Feminism tells me that’s equality.

Feminism tells men they need to be passive and let women lead, that they shouldn’t have ambition. Feminism tells men that they’re stupid and are sexist and horrible and rapists because they don’t support the movement that supports the removal of their rights. Feminism tells men they need to apologize because of their gender, something they can’t change. Feminism tells men that they didn’t work to get into high positions in society, that they were just handed them. Feminism tells men they can’t be raped, abused or hurt because they’re men. Feminism tells men they’re little more than dildos that help us reproduce. Feminism tells men this is equality.

                   and these are just some of the minor reasons why i am very against it. I ACTUALLY WANT EQUALITY AND WE DO NOT HAVE TO FACE THE SAME PROBLEMS TO ACHIEVE THAT!


While your message at first is clear and cool, your jab at feminism is clearly misguided. If you seriously think its just ‘buh womenz bringing men down and wanting to rule the world!” then you’re reeeeallllyyyy misinformed and should probably get off tumblr or educate yourself with better sources.

>”If women earn less than men, hire them for everything and save money” ….what? How does this solve anything? 

>”i am independent, and nothing in this fucking country tells me that when a guy wants my ass that i have to bend over” Well congrats. YOU have never felt pressured to give sex, YOU have never noticed the hundreds of commercials, media attention, and cases of women/girls being pursued, pressured, drugged, and coerced into sex. And if you’re seriously in denial that there is NO informal/social education is taught to certain genders concerning certain aspects (like sex) then it’s no wonder you’re misguided.

>”But nowhere is rape taught as acceptable.Rape is illegal and is seen as a crime by all people in society.” I would loooovvee to believe this. But in every questioning of female rape victims, they’re always asked what theyre wearing, what theyre past experiences were. The amount of ACTUAL PERPETRATORS of rape in jail compared to them being prosecuted? Yea, a lot less. Just search the issue and pages of stories will come up of girls who are too scared to come out bc of what people will say, of girls who have tried to get help and were turned away bc oh the boy who raped them was a son of someone in power. And yes, MEN GET raped too. Sometimes by women. But if you look men are the majority of the rapists. This isn’t even just a ‘feminist issue’ its a fucking society issue. And you denying it helps NO ONE.

>The entirety of your last paragraphs are bullshit. If THAT is the message you get from feminism, you are listening to the wrong people or your judgement is sooooo clouded everything you hear is turned around. Feminism doesn’t PUT women as victims, it points out how they are portrayed in society (media, books, movies, careers, general home life). It doesn’t tell men to be bowing down and serving, it points out how taught masculinity (of ALL kinds) is harmful to EVERYBODY. 

Your view of this isn’t uncommon, and it’s quite sad it exists. Though it comes from somewhere and it’s sad that people claiming to be part of feminism is making you believe it. But just like those feminists who view the entirety of man as awful, potential rapists, your view of them as rabid, man hating, villains. 

>”If women earn less than men, hire them for everything and save money” ….what? How does this solve anything?


My comment: I didn’t say that to “solve anything” (legally there isn’t anything to solve). i said that to exemplify how stupid you people are for believing in a gender-based wage-gap. Let me dumb it down for you. What i was saying is that if there was a gender-based wage gap (which there isn’t) companies/business owners would hire women more for everything because they would have to pay women less for the work they do. BUT, because there ISN’T a gender-based wage gap (or law that states that women will get paid less than men) THAT SCENARIO DOESN’T HAPPEN. Do you understand? Since there is NO GENDER-BASED WAGE GAP, a scenario such as “women being hired more because business owners and companies would  legally get to pay them less” DOES NOT HAPPEN.

The wage gap is a result of  women’s choices:

  • Women sacrifice pay for all sorts of reasons including security, safety, flexibility, and fulfillment.

  • Men choose higher-paying fields and occupations.

  • Women more likely to choose careers in lower paying fields such as education and health care

  • Men are more likely than women to pursue areas of specialization with higher levels of stress.

  • Men are also far more likely to choose careers that involve physical labor, overnight and weekend shifts, dangerous conditions, as well as uncomfortable, isolated, outdoor, and undesirable locations.

  • Men work more hours(9%) than women

  • Women spending fewer hours than men at work doing the same jobs, such as taking more sick and vacation time, working less overtime and fewer nights, weekends, and holidays.

  • Read the fucking link


Instead of pursuing a degree in Gender/Women’s studies maybe you should help close the wage gap by pursuing a degree in Computer science, Construction, Petroleum Engineering and other stressful, dirty and dangerous male dominated job.



>”i am independent, and nothing in this fucking country tells me that when a guy wants my ass that i have to bend over” Well congrats. YOU have never felt pressured to give sex, YOU have never noticed the hundreds of commercials, media attention, and cases of women/girls being pursued, pressured, drugged, and coerced into sex. And if you’re seriously in denial that there is NO informal/social education is taught to certain genders concerning certain aspects (like sex) then it’s no wonder you’re misguided.


My comment: Exactly how is feminism going to help a girl who was pressured into having sex? Seriously, tell me how feminism is going to give her personality a 180, and turn her from a doormat into a person who doesn’t give into pressure. I have noticed all those things and guess what! I’VE NOTICED IT HAPPENS TO BOTH FUCKING GENDERS! ever heard “all guys want is sex” , “dude are you still a virgin? What a loser”. Have you ever seen the movies, commercials, music  videos where a guy is just standing there with his shirt off or half naked while a girl uses and abuses him (i.e drugs, whips, standing on him, hitting him, leashes, calling him a dog) to “make things sexy” (simple examples would be: beyonce, rihanna, marina and the diamonds)

Both genders have attacks against our desires, men aren’t portrayed as being with larger women, or very unattractive women. Men are portrayed as being big, tall, and/or muscled, with hot super model babes on their arm. That forces a standard that they feel they have to live up to. Women are portrayed as willing to be with a man because of a certain trait and liking someone’s looks is usually frowned upon, unless, of course she fixes the man and he gets smarter, stronger, kinder, whatever.


BOTH GENDERS FACE THESE ISSUES! (but feminists only care about the females and pin the problem on males-as you have just done.)



>”But nowhere is rape taught as acceptable.Rape is illegal and is seen as a crime by all people in society.” I would loooovvee to believe this. But in every questioning of female rape victims, they’re always asked what theyre wearing, what theyre past experiences were. The amount of ACTUAL PERPETRATORS of rape in jail compared to them being prosecuted? Yea, a lot less. Just search the issue and pages of stories will come up of girls who are too scared to come out bc of what people will say, of girls who have tried to get help and were turned away bc oh the boy who raped them was a son of someone in power. And yes, MEN GET raped too. Sometimes by women. But if you look men are the majority of the rapists. This isn’t even just a ‘feminist issue’ its a fucking society issue. And you denying it helps NO ONE.


  • My commentary: I am not, and never did deny that people get raped, wtf? what i said: “rape goes both ways. IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT A GENDER ISSUE!” The problem is that feminists (like you, as you have just done this) are trying to pin rape on the male gender and trying to minimize/erase male victims and women perpetrators. An example of how you, a feminist, have just proven my point would be what you have just written: “And yes, MEN GET raped too. Sometimes by women. But if you look men are the majority of the rapists.” see what you’ve just done there? I applaud you for at least acknowledging that men get raped though. There is also something called innocent until PROVEN guilty. Look it up, it may answer your concerns as to why officers question victims of any crime. ^^



HERE’S SOME  FOOD FOR THOUGHT, HOW BOUT YOU EDUCATE YOURSELF A BIT MORE SWEETIE:   

You wanna talk about rape culture?


Rape culture is women getting away with rape because “the man probably liked it.”


Rape culture is women getting away with child molestation because “the boy probably liked it.”


Rape culture is women believing that women don’t rape.


Rape culture is women believing that women can’t rape.


Rape culture is a woman raping a man and then demanding that he pay child support for the child he did not consent to father.


Rape culture is the lack of “rape by envelopment,” being classified by national rape laws.


Rape culture is believing that all men are one event away from being rapists.


Rape culture is not wanting people to be prepared to defend themselves in the instance of an attack.


If you believe otherwise, you are an idiot and, more than likely, a bigot. Men do not rape, rapists rape, because they are mentally disturbed individuals who do not care about the laws that we have in place against rape. You want to know why I don’t agree with Feminism? Because Feminism does not believe in equal consequences for equal crimes. “ -oldmancaleb



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CDC - National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey 2010

  • total amount of rapists including made to penetrate= 2,537,000

  • total amount of female rapists under these terms=1,003,464

  • total percentage of female rapists=39.55%  [which fits right into the roughly 40% number on the poster]

  • total amount of victims of rape including made to penetrate=2,537,000

  • total amount of male victims=1,267,000

  • total percentage of male victims of rape=49.94%  [0.6% less than a full 50%, however, those numbers of 1,267,000 for women and 1,267,000 for men are weighted both at 1.1%, so that’s where a nice round 50% comes from] - cobblepot

RAPE ISN’T A GENDER ISSUE! IT’S NOT A WOMEN’S ISSUE!!! NOT ONLY MEN RAPE! RAPISTS RAPE! YOU DO NOT “TEACH MEN HOW TO NOT FUCKING RAPE!!” YOU CAN NOT TEACH A MURDERER HOW TO NOT FUCKING MURDER! ANY GENDER CAN RAPE, ONLY RAPISTS RAPE, RAPISTS CAN COME IN ANY GENDER, SHAPE AND FUCKING SIZE! STOP! ~okay hun ^^


>The entirety of your last paragraphs are bullshit. If THAT is the message you get from feminism, you are listening to the wrong people or your judgement is sooooo clouded everything you hear is turned around. Feminism doesn’t PUT women as victims, it points out how they are portrayed in society (media, books, movies, careers, general home life). It doesn’t tell men to be bowing down and serving, it points out how taught masculinity (of ALL kinds) is harmful to EVERYBODY


  • My Commentary: That is the message i get from every feminist post I’ve seen and even the bull shit that guy wrote on my post. Masculinity is just as harmful as femininity. If you want to erase masculinity, you better be working on erasing femininity. both aspects have their good and bad point. That is yet another thing you feminists do not seem to understand. Men and women are portrayed in certain ways (good and bad), both genders face problems socially, both genders have their privileges. Every feminist post i see talks about how “i’m oppressed” as though they want me to seek oppression. Feminists baby women, an example would be in the case of drunken consent or, in feminists eyes, “drunken rape”:

  • Feminists label women as weak, stupid imbeciles who can’t even do what is expected of a child. Here I talk about the instance on drunken “rape”. it is absolutely the most deeming argument that i have ever seen and makes me feel ashamed. I mean women actually hold up signs and scream that “I’m aren’t responsible for what they do or what happens to them while I’m are drunk.” “I don’t have to protect themselves from psychos trying to rape me…tell psychos not to rape.” Why the hell do you think we tell children not to talk to strangers and to look both ways before crossing the streets. Why don’t we just tell peodophiles not to kidnap children and tell drivers not to run them over. Children are expected more of than women are in feminists eyes. that is so sick and stupid. Also why is it that a woman who is drunk of her rocker and has sex with someone she normally wouldn’t have sex with can state rape and land his sorry ass in prison, but a man who is drunk off his rocker and does the same thing with a woman, as to suck it up and label it as “a bad night” or something. that’s really freaking stupid. in the eyes of feminists, a woman who is intoxicated and  does something she normally wouldn’t do when sober is the victim…but when a man is intoxicated and does something he normally wouldn’t do it’s still his fault, his actions, a responsibility he has to own up to? what!? how is that freaking fair!? that is not only unjust, but also deeming to women. They are saying while I’m drunk i am not capable of being responsible for me…but while a man is drunk he is capable for being responsible for him (and in some instances me.)


Literally, feminists care more about a piece of dog shit on the side of the road than they care about men. A few examples would be:

THAT IS NOT FUCKING EQUALITY! You seem to be the misguided one here. look up the actions of your own movement, CALL THEM OUT AND FIGHT AGAINST THEIR UNJUST AND SEXIST WAYS! That is what i do. so STFU. ~<3 



I’ve already reblogged this but it got better. 

This is why I am Anti-Feminist.

Feminism is inherently evil and promotes a message of hate. 

I think it’s time we start saying this more openly. 

it got alotbetter

This is fucking disgusting.  All you anti-feminist people are assholes.  You are worse than shit.

There are definitely asshole feminists.  But that doesn’t excuse your bullshit.

That’s all I can say on this right now because it’s just so fucking terrible.

>Anti-feminists use piles apon piles of facts and statistics to counter-attack feminist arguments, supported by multiple legitimate sources.

"UGH ANTI-FEMINIST ASSHOLES YOU’RE FULL OF SHIT"

I don’t even have a response to properly describe how stupid that is.

I was too angry at the bullshit last night to address the “facts.”  And let’s be honest, even if I take down every single “fact,” then the anti-feminists are still going to ignore it or make up other bullshit to support their position.  So what’s the point?

But, just to prove my point on this, here you go.

In response to that “unbiased” CONSAD report: http://amptoons.com/blog/2010/11/26/how-the-consad-report-on-the-wage-gap-masks-sexism-instead-of-measuring-it/

You might also want to recognize that for that one single report that tries to explain away the wage gap, there are many, many reports and studies and evidence that has been shown again and again to prove that the gender wage gap exists: http://social.dol.gov/blog/myth-busting-the-pay-gap/

Not just self-identified feminists, but many women see all men as potential rapists.  This isn’t a “fact” proving that feminism is a problem.  It’s shows that rape culture exists, not because women chose for it to exist (do you seriously think women want to be afraid all the time?).  It exists because many women have been sexually abused or assaulted, because they have escaped rape attempts, and have received unwanted attention from men over and over again.  Yeah, there are women who haven’t experienced this, but that doesn’t change the fact that many women do.

No information provided showed that feminists don’t believe men can be raped.  Just somebody saying that feminists believe that, and linking to proof that men are raped.  Rape culture does result in men being raped, especially children and men in prison.  But that doesn’t change the reality of the fear women feel regarding potential rapists. 

There was also no facts supporting the idea that feminists erase female rapists.

There’s no facts supporting the statement that feminists fought for erasure of male rape victims.

The Duluth model itself uses gender neutral language now (I don’t now if it always did).  http://www.theduluthmodel.org/about/index.html  Though the website does say it’s about ending violence against women specifically, which is problematic.

Women who call the police in domestic abuse situations also can be arrested, whether they are the victims or the abusers.  It’s not a problem created by feminists.  It’s a problem created by fucking terrible law enforcement.

The myth that women are the only victims of domestic abuse and sexual violence is not a feminist myth.  Until a couple years ago, the FBI defined rape, leaving out the possibiliy of male victims: http://feministing.com/2011/10/20/update-fbi-changes-official-definition-of-rape/

Good feminists recognize that we need to dismantle the myth that men can’t be victims of violence. 

An article about one mens shelter going bankrupt is not proof that feminism is bad.  That wasn’t the only shelter for battered men (no, I’m not linking to mens shelters, just like I wouldn’t link to currently operating womens shelters).  And women’s shelters get closed down for financial reasons too.

A video of one woman being a piece of shit on youtube is not proof that feminists in general mock the suicide rate of men.  I could link you a hundred youtube videos of men laughing about women getting murdered and raped by men, but that wouldn’t prove anything to you, would it?

Jezebel is shit, so don’t even link that.  Unless you want other people to start linking every page that comes up when you search for “wife beating jokes.”

Yes, in the 19th century, feminists faught for mothers to get custody of children, because prior to that children were treated as property of the father.  Today, feminists generally feel that the belief that women are better caretakers is sexist, and sometimes actively fight against that: http://www.law.berkeley.edu/3158.htm

The same Jezebel article was used twice as a “fact” up there.

Trust me, there are bad “feminists.”  There are horrible women out there who believe men deserve to be hurt, that they can’t be raped.  They also believe that transgender women are just men pretending to be women, and transgender men are women who are so oppressed they decided to give up being female. They believe that bisexuals don’t exist, and a very tiny handful of them believe all heterosexual sex is rape.  Those people are just as disgusting as you people who are trying to make male rape survivors your posterboys for anti-feminism.  They are just as worthless human beings as you are for trying to make a case that men and women are equal because they get raped equally. 

And, yeah, I didn’t respond to every “point” made in this thread, because most of them were presented just as personal experience and opinions. The only facts presented in this thing are the fact that men are raped and are victims of domestic abuse.  A fact that feminism does not deny.  A fact that supports the existence of rape culture.  The actual facts in this thread does not dismiss the relevance of feminism.

(Source: recitethis.com)

wow. then you go and start insulting me. i know all you have are opinions and no valid facts, but anyone with half a brain can see how toxic feminism is by reading that factual post. welp, keep advocating for your despicable movement kay? the smart people will watch it burn from the sidelines. :)

Anonymous

Still a fucking moron.

"Blah blah blah, I must be right because the person I’m arguing with is insulting, because only I have the right to use insulting language. Besides, the value of people is determined only intelligence."

To clarify, you aren’t shit because you’re a moron.  You’re shit because you buy into “facts” that “prove” feminism isn’t necessary because women rape men.  Because apparently, you believe that equality is based on people being raped equally. 

You’re shit because while there are some really fucking terrible individual “feminists” and “feminist” groups, you decide that the whole movement is toxic.  But apparently the “equalists” are OK even though there are at least as many examples as people labeling themselves equalists doing equally toxic things.

You’re shit because not even all the “facts” in that post check out, but you didn’t bother to check that yourself.

And you’re shit because instead of just reblogging with your comments, you are coming to someone’s tumblr on anon to harass them. I could put you on ignore.  I do when people really bother me.  But I’m in a bad fucking mood because I died of complications related to kidney failure, but there are too many terrible people on tumblr for me to rest in peace, so I am using your bullshit asks as a way to vent.

So, thank you for being a fucking asshole tonight, and harassing a blog written by the ghost of a cat.  You’re really helping your vomit-inducing cause by harassing someone you assumed is a woman.

i know it hurts to see how shitty your movement is, babe but it's the truth. all the facts and sources the post provides prove that it is disgusting, so fight against it, kay?

Anonymous

You’re a fucking moron.

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We do not have to hold the same strengths. We do not have to face the same struggles. We can be different and still be equal.
This is something that feminists just cannot wrap around their deluded minds.

But we have to be equal fist and when women make up 50% of the population but only 77 cents to every dollar that’s when you know it’s not equal When men feel entitled to sex because women are taught to give sex, men objectify women because women are taught to become objects, when men are taught to be heroic and emotionless protagonists while women are taught to be damsels in distress to a man’s story, a piece to be won thats when you know it’s not equal When basic reproductive rights are denied to half of a population and we still make it sound like its necessary to do so that’s when you know it’s not equal at all When rape is an epidemic but people would rather make up definitions and blame the victim that’s when you know it’s not equal Yes we’re born with different genitalia but for gods sake it shouldn’t mean women have to be treated like sex objects, prizes to be won or helpless minions to your departed fantasies


“and when women make up 50% of the population but only 77 cents to every dollar that’s when you know it’s not equal” 

  wow. are you seriously going to use this idiotic argument? wage gap is not a “we want women to be oppressed, let’s pay them less cause we just hate woman” issue. it has nothing to do with gender at all. if you ignorant fucks can’t understand this, i feel immensely sorry for you. if women earn less than men, why don’t we just higher them for everything? we would be saving money that way, right? read this non fucking biased document and educate yourself you ignorant piece of bullshit. http://www.consad.com/content/reports/Gender%20Wage%20Gap%20Final%20Report.pdf

“When men feel entitled to sex because women are taught to give sex, men objectify women because women are taught to become objects, when men are taught to be heroic and emotionless protagonists while women are taught to be damsels in distress to a man’s story, a piece to be won that’s when you know it’s not equal”             

  if i ever heard this come out of your filthy mouth irl, i would have backhanded you so fucking hard your teeth would scatter the wall. how dare you insult me and my gender that way. TAUGHT TO GIVE SEX TO MEN! fuck you and your beliefs. i am independent, and nothing in this fucking country tells me that when a guy wants my ass that i have to bend over. fuck you. and thought to become objects? wtf does that even mean?? i am only raised to become an object in men’s eyes and i have no free will? TAKE YOUR SEXIST ASS OUT OF THIS LIFE, YOU DISGUSTING FUCK! i am anti feminist because i know that the law says i am  not oppressed. i am anti feminist because the only ones spilling sexist bullshit are feminists like you. FUCK YOU, YOU SEXIST CUNT. STOP FUCKING TELLING ME I AM OPPRESSED! and never in my life have i met a man that feels he is entitled to sex. in fact, every guy i’ve known are so scared to talk to girls in fear of being called a creep, pervert, or “nice guy” so fuck the fuck off. no one is taughtt to be anything in this country. we have free will. it is free. so wtf are you talking about, dumb fuck?

“When rape is an epidemic but people would rather make up definitions and blame the victim that’s when you know it’s not equal”

 i don’t even know where you are going with this nonsense but, rape goes both ways. IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT A GENDER ISSUE! STOP MAKING IT ABOUT JUST THE POOR WOMEN. Since Feminism is all about playing the persecuted, weak, helpless victim, feminists have promoted the fantasy that we live a culture that “teaches men to rape”. But nowhere is rape taught as acceptable.Rape is illegal and is seen as a crime by all people in society. Feminists confuse dominance and submission themes as rape. Only rape is rape. Posing in a picture for perfume is not rape.

“Yes we’re born with different genitalia but for gods sake it shouldn’t mean women have to be treated like sex objects, prizes to be won or helpless minions to your departed fantasies”

 Okay, srsly?           
Feminism makes up things, or forces women into a victim role, needing to be helped and pushed up rather than earning it.
Feminism tells me I’m weak and I need handouts because of my gender. Feminism tells me I can’t stand up and empower myself because I need help with every little thing. Feminism tells me men are all sexist and rapists and I should be scared just walking outside cause that’s pretty much what you told me. Feminism tells me I can’t be sexist or horrible to men because previously women were oppressed. Feminism tells me that’s equality.
Feminism tells men they need to be passive and let women lead, that they shouldn’t have ambition. Feminism tells men that they’re stupid and are sexist and horrible and rapists because they don’t support the movement that supports the removal of their rights. Feminism tells men they need to apologize because of their gender, something they can’t change. Feminism tells men that they didn’t work to get into high positions in society, that they were just handed them. Feminism tells men they can’t be raped, abused or hurt because they’re men. Feminism tells men they’re little more than dildos that help us reproduce. Feminism tells men this is equality.
                    and these are just some of the minor reasons why i am very against it. I ACTUALLY WANT EQUALITY AND WE DO NOT HAVE TO FACE THE SAME PROBLEMS TO ACHIEVE THAT!


While your message at first is clear and cool, your jab at feminism is clearly misguided. If you seriously think its just ‘buh womenz bringing men down and wanting to rule the world!” then you’re reeeeallllyyyy misinformed and should probably get off tumblr or educate yourself with better sources.
&gt;”If women earn less than men, hire them for everything and save money” ….what? How does this solve anything? 
&gt;”i am independent, and nothing in this fucking country tells me that when a guy wants my ass that i have to bend over” Well congrats. YOU have never felt pressured to give sex, YOU have never noticed the hundreds of commercials, media attention, and cases of women/girls being pursued, pressured, drugged, and coerced into sex. And if you’re seriously in denial that there is NO informal/social education is taught to certain genders concerning certain aspects (like sex) then it’s no wonder you’re misguided.
&gt;”But nowhere is rape taught as acceptable.Rape is illegal and is seen as a crime by all people in society.” I would loooovvee to believe this. But in every questioning of female rape victims, they’re always asked what theyre wearing, what theyre past experiences were. The amount of ACTUAL PERPETRATORS of rape in jail compared to them being prosecuted? Yea, a lot less. Just search the issue and pages of stories will come up of girls who are too scared to come out bc of what people will say, of girls who have tried to get help and were turned away bc oh the boy who raped them was a son of someone in power. And yes, MEN GET raped too. Sometimes by women. But if you look men are the majority of the rapists. This isn’t even just a ‘feminist issue’ its a fucking society issue. And you denying it helps NO ONE.
&gt;The entirety of your last paragraphs are bullshit. If THAT is the message you get from feminism, you are listening to the wrong people or your judgement is sooooo clouded everything you hear is turned around. Feminism doesn’t PUT women as victims, it points out how they are portrayed in society (media, books, movies, careers, general home life). It doesn’t tell men to be bowing down and serving, it points out how taught masculinity (of ALL kinds) is harmful to EVERYBODY. 
Your view of this isn’t uncommon, and it’s quite sad it exists. Though it comes from somewhere and it’s sad that people claiming to be part of feminism is making you believe it. But just like those feminists who view the entirety of man as awful, potential rapists, your view of them as rabid, man hating, villains. 

&gt;”If women earn less than men, hire them for everything and save money” ….what? How does this solve anything? 

My comment: I didn’t say that to “solve anything” (legally there isn’t anything to solve). i said that to exemplify how stupid you people are for believing in a gender-based wage-gap. Let me dumb it down for you. What i was saying is that if there was a gender-based wage gap (which there isn’t) companies/business owners would hire women more for everything because they would have to pay women less for the work they do. BUT, because there ISN’T a gender-based wage gap (or law that states that women will get paid less than men) THAT SCENARIO DOESN’T HAPPEN. Do you understand? Since there is NO GENDER-BASED WAGE GAP, a scenario such as “women being hired more because business owners and companies would  legally get to pay them less” DOES NOT HAPPEN. 
The wage gap is a result of  women’s choices:

Women sacrifice pay for all sorts of reasons including security, safety, flexibility, and fulfillment.


Men choose higher-paying fields and occupations.


Women more likely to choose careers in lower paying fields such as education and health care


Men are more likely than women to pursue areas of specialization with higher levels of stress.


Men are also far more likely to choose careers that involve physical labor, overnight and weekend shifts, dangerous conditions, as well as uncomfortable, isolated, outdoor, and undesirable locations.


Men work more hours(9%) than women


Women spending fewer hours than men at work doing the same jobs, such as taking more sick and vacation time, working less overtime and fewer nights, weekends, and holidays.


Read the fucking link


Instead of pursuing a degree in Gender/Women’s studies maybe you should help close the wage gap by pursuing a degree in Computer science, Construction, Petroleum Engineering and other stressful, dirty and dangerous male dominated job.

&gt;”i am independent, and nothing in this fucking country tells me that when a guy wants my ass that i have to bend over” Well congrats. YOU have never felt pressured to give sex, YOU have never noticed the hundreds of commercials, media attention, and cases of women/girls being pursued, pressured, drugged, and coerced into sex. And if you’re seriously in denial that there is NO informal/social education is taught to certain genders concerning certain aspects (like sex) then it’s no wonder you’re misguided.

My comment: Exactly how is feminism going to help a girl who was pressured into having sex? Seriously, tell me how feminism is going to give her personality a 180, and turn her from a doormat into a person who doesn’t give into pressure. I have noticed all those things and guess what! I’VE NOTICED IT HAPPENS TO BOTH FUCKING GENDERS! ever heard “all guys want is sex” , “dude are you still a virgin? What a loser”. Have you ever seen the movies, commercials, music  videos where a guy is just standing there with his shirt off or half naked while a girl uses and abuses him (i.e drugs, whips, standing on him, hitting him, leashes, calling him a dog) to “make things sexy” (simple examples would be: beyonce, rihanna, marina and the diamonds) 
Both genders have attacks against our desires, men aren’t portrayed as being with larger women, or very unattractive women. Men are portrayed as being big, tall, and/or muscled, with hot super model babes on their arm. That forces a standard that they feel they have to live up to. Women are portrayed as willing to be with a man because of a certain trait and liking someone’s looks is usually frowned upon, unless, of course she fixes the man and he gets smarter, stronger, kinder, whatever.

BOTH GENDERS FACE THESE ISSUES! (but feminists only care about the females and pin the problem on males-as you have just done.)

&gt;”But nowhere is rape taught as acceptable.Rape is illegal and is seen as a crime by all people in society.” I would loooovvee to believe this. But in every questioning of female rape victims, they’re always asked what theyre wearing, what theyre past experiences were. The amount of ACTUAL PERPETRATORS of rape in jail compared to them being prosecuted? Yea, a lot less. Just search the issue and pages of stories will come up of girls who are too scared to come out bc of what people will say, of girls who have tried to get help and were turned away bc oh the boy who raped them was a son of someone in power. And yes, MEN GET raped too. Sometimes by women. But if you look men are the majority of the rapists. This isn’t even just a ‘feminist issue’ its a fucking society issue. And you denying it helps NO ONE.


My commentary: I am not, and never did deny that people get raped, wtf? what i said: “rape goes both ways. IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT A GENDER ISSUE!” The problem is that feminists (like you, as you have just done this) are trying to pin rape on the male gender and trying to minimize/erase male victims and women perpetrators. An example of how you, a feminist, have just proven my point would be what you have just written: “And yes, MEN GET raped too. Sometimes by women. But if you look men are the majority of the rapists.” see what you’ve just done there? I applaud you for at least acknowledging that men get raped though. There is also something called innocent until PROVEN guilty. Look it up, it may answer your concerns as to why officers question victims of any crime. ^^



Feminists believe that all men are potential rapists. That we should simply tell them rape is bad (it’s not like it’s illegal or anything), that you can somehow be a good person and a rapist simultaneously.


Feminists deny that men are raped at all, let alone just as often. If not more.


Feminists have erased many female victims due to the “only men rape” paradigm.


HERE’S SOME  FOOD FOR THOUGHT, HOW BOUT YOU EDUCATE YOURSELF A BIT MORE SWEETIE:   

blatant erasure of male rape victims by the law (feminists fought for this) 

“You wanna talk about rape culture?

Rape culture is women getting away with rape because “the man probably liked it.”

Rape culture is women getting away with child molestation because “the boy probably liked it.”

Rape culture is women believing that women don’t rape.

Rape culture is women believing that women can’t rape.

Rape culture is a woman raping a man and then demanding that he pay child support for the child he did not consent to father.

Rape culture is the lack of “rape by envelopment,” being classified by national rape laws.

Rape culture is believing that all men are one event away from being rapists.

Rape culture is not wanting people to be prepared to defend themselves in the instance of an attack. 

If you believe otherwise, you are an idiot and, more than likely, a bigot. Men do not rape, rapists rape, because they are mentally disturbed individuals who do not care about the laws that we have in place against rape. You want to know why I don’t agree with Feminism? Because Feminism does not believe in equal consequences for equal crimes. “ -oldmancaleb


this man was sexually assaulted but no one gives a fuck becuse you fuck tards think and preach “only men rape” “teach men not to rape”


and what the public had to say about this..?


50% of homeless youth reported being sexually abused by a female. From: It’s Not What You Think: Sexually Exploited Youth in British Columbia.http://www.nursing.ubc.ca/PDFs/ItsNotWhatYouThink.pdf


 one in 6 men are sexually abused before turning 18.


CDC - National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey 2010

total amount of rapists including made to penetrate= 2,537,000


total amount of female rapists under these terms=1,003,464


total percentage of female rapists=39.55%  [which fits right into the roughly 40% number on the poster]


total amount of victims of rape including made to penetrate=2,537,000


total amount of male victims=1,267,000


total percentage of male victims of rape=49.94%  [0.6% less than a full 50%, however, those numbers of 1,267,000 for women and 1,267,000 for men are weighted both at 1.1%, so that’s where a nice round 50% comes from] - cobblepot

RAPE ISN’T A GENDER ISSUE! IT’S NOT A WOMEN’S ISSUE!!! NOT ONLY MEN RAPE! RAPISTS RAPE! YOU DO NOT “TEACH MEN HOW TO NOT FUCKING RAPE!!” YOU CAN NOT TEACH A MURDERER HOW TO NOT FUCKING MURDER! ANY GENDER CAN RAPE, ONLY RAPISTS RAPE, RAPISTS CAN COME IN ANY GENDER, SHAPE AND FUCKING SIZE! STOP! ~okay hun ^^

&gt;The entirety of your last paragraphs are bullshit. If THAT is the message you get from feminism, you are listening to the wrong people or your judgement is sooooo clouded everything you hear is turned around. Feminism doesn’t PUT women as victims, it points out how they are portrayed in society (media, books, movies, careers, general home life). It doesn’t tell men to be bowing down and serving, it points out how taught masculinity (of ALL kinds) is harmful to EVERYBODY


My Commentary: That is the message i get from every feminist post I’ve seen and even the bull shit that guy wrote on my post. Masculinity is just as harmful as femininity. If you want to erase masculinity, you better be working on erasing femininity. both aspects have their good and bad point. That is yet another thing you feminists do not seem to understand. Men and women are portrayed in certain ways (good and bad), both genders face problems socially, both genders have their privileges. Every feminist post i see talks about how “i’m oppressed” as though they want me to seek oppression. Feminists baby women, an example would be in the case of drunken consent or, in feminists eyes, “drunken rape”: 


Feminists label women as weak, stupid imbeciles who can’t even do what is expected of a child. Here I talk about the instance on drunken “rape”. it is absolutely the most deeming argument that i have ever seen and makes me feel ashamed. I mean women actually hold up signs and scream that “I’m aren’t responsible for what they do or what happens to them while I’m are drunk.” “I don’t have to protect themselves from psychos trying to rape me…tell psychos not to rape.” Why the hell do you think we tell children not to talk to strangers and to look both ways before crossing the streets. Why don’t we just tell peodophiles not to kidnap children and tell drivers not to run them over. Children are expected more of than women are in feminists eyes. that is so sick and stupid. Also why is it that a woman who is drunk of her rocker and has sex with someone she normally wouldn’t have sex with can state rape and land his sorry ass in prison, but a man who is drunk off his rocker and does the same thing with a woman, as to suck it up and label it as “a bad night” or something. that’s really freaking stupid. in the eyes of feminists, a woman who is intoxicated and  does something she normally wouldn’t do when sober is the victim…but when a man is intoxicated and does something he normally wouldn’t do it’s still his fault, his actions, a responsibility he has to own up to? what!? how is that freaking fair!? that is not only unjust, but also deeming to women. They are saying while I’m drunk i am not capable of being responsible for me…but while a man is drunk he is capable for being responsible for him (and in some instances me.)


Literally, feminists care more about a piece of dog shit on the side of the road than they care about men. A few examples would be: 

Feminists created the Duluth model for domestic violence that says only men commit domestic abuse and only women suffer it. Thanks to VAWA, if a man calls about an abusive spouse, he is himself arrested. 


Feminists control all the discourse on domestic violence while men can’t get a single penny for domestic violence shelters for male victims.


Feminists mock the massive suicide rate of men.


Feminists mock male domestic violence victims.


Feminists advocated for default mother custody.


Feminists ignoring and even praising women who physically abuse men

THAT IS NOT FUCKING EQUALITY! You seem to be the misguided one here. look up the actions of your own movement, CALL THEM OUT AND FIGHT AGAINST THEIR UNJUST AND SEXIST WAYS! That is what i do. so STFU. ~&lt;3 


I’ve already reblogged this but it got better. 
This is why I am Anti-Feminist.
Feminism is inherently evil and promotes a message of hate. 
I think it’s time we start saying this more openly. 




it got alotbetter

This is fucking disgusting.  All you anti-feminist people are assholes.  You are worse than shit.
There are definitely asshole feminists.  But that doesn&#8217;t excuse your bullshit.
That&#8217;s all I can say on this right now because it&#8217;s just so fucking terrible.

martin-snowman:

exchangingthings:

lifelibertyandthepursuitof5sos:

just-simply-stopit:

cannotgiveafuck:

just-simply-stopit:

gayyourlifemustbe:

just-simply-stopit:

We do not have to hold the same strengths. We do not have to face the same struggles. We can be different and still be equal.

This is something that feminists just cannot wrap around their deluded minds.

But we have to be equal fist and when women make up 50% of the population but only 77 cents to every dollar that’s when you know it’s not equal
When men feel entitled to sex because women are taught to give sex, men objectify women because women are taught to become objects, when men are taught to be heroic and emotionless protagonists while women are taught to be damsels in distress to a man’s story, a piece to be won thats when you know it’s not equal
When basic reproductive rights are denied to half of a population and we still make it sound like its necessary to do so that’s when you know it’s not equal at all
When rape is an epidemic but people would rather make up definitions and blame the victim that’s when you know it’s not equal
Yes we’re born with different genitalia but for gods sake it shouldn’t mean women have to be treated like sex objects, prizes to be won or helpless minions to your departed fantasies

  • “and when women make up 50% of the population but only 77 cents to every dollar that’s when you know it’s not equal”

 wow. are you seriously going to use this idiotic argument? wage gap is not a “we want women to be oppressed, let’s pay them less cause we just hate woman” issue. it has nothing to do with gender at all. if you ignorant fucks can’t understand this, i feel immensely sorry for you. if women earn less than men, why don’t we just higher them for everything? we would be saving money that way, right? read this non fucking biased document and educate yourself you ignorant piece of bullshit. http://www.consad.com/content/reports/Gender%20Wage%20Gap%20Final%20Report.pdf

  • “When men feel entitled to sex because women are taught to give sex, men objectify women because women are taught to become objects, when men are taught to be heroic and emotionless protagonists while women are taught to be damsels in distress to a man’s story, a piece to be won that’s when you know it’s not equal”             

 if i ever heard this come out of your filthy mouth irl, i would have backhanded you so fucking hard your teeth would scatter the wall. how dare you insult me and my gender that way. TAUGHT TO GIVE SEX TO MEN! fuck you and your beliefs. i am independent, and nothing in this fucking country tells me that when a guy wants my ass that i have to bend over. fuck you. and thought to become objects? wtf does that even mean?? i am only raised to become an object in men’s eyes and i have no free will? TAKE YOUR SEXIST ASS OUT OF THIS LIFE, YOU DISGUSTING FUCK! i am anti feminist because i know that the law says i am  not oppressed. i am anti feminist because the only ones spilling sexist bullshit are feminists like you. FUCK YOU, YOU SEXIST CUNT. STOP FUCKING TELLING ME I AM OPPRESSED! and never in my life have i met a man that feels he is entitled to sex. in fact, every guy i’ve known are so scared to talk to girls in fear of being called a creep, pervert, or “nice guy” so fuck the fuck off. no one is taughtt to be anything in this country. we have free will. it is free. so wtf are you talking about, dumb fuck?

  • “When rape is an epidemic but people would rather make up definitions and blame the victim that’s when you know it’s not equal”

i don’t even know where you are going with this nonsense but, rape goes both ways. IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT A GENDER ISSUE! STOP MAKING IT ABOUT JUST THE POOR WOMEN. Since Feminism is all about playing the persecuted, weak, helpless victim, feminists have promoted the fantasy that we live a culture that “teaches men to rape”. But nowhere is rape taught as acceptable.Rape is illegal and is seen as a crime by all people in society. Feminists confuse dominance and submission themes as rape. Only rape is rape. Posing in a picture for perfume is not rape.

  • “Yes we’re born with different genitalia but for gods sake it shouldn’t mean women have to be treated like sex objects, prizes to be won or helpless minions to your departed fantasies”

Okay, srsly?           

Feminism makes up things, or forces women into a victim role, needing to be helped and pushed up rather than earning it.

Feminism tells me I’m weak and I need handouts because of my gender. Feminism tells me I can’t stand up and empower myself because I need help with every little thing. Feminism tells me men are all sexist and rapists and I should be scared just walking outside cause that’s pretty much what you told me. Feminism tells me I can’t be sexist or horrible to men because previously women were oppressed. Feminism tells me that’s equality.

Feminism tells men they need to be passive and let women lead, that they shouldn’t have ambition. Feminism tells men that they’re stupid and are sexist and horrible and rapists because they don’t support the movement that supports the removal of their rights. Feminism tells men they need to apologize because of their gender, something they can’t change. Feminism tells men that they didn’t work to get into high positions in society, that they were just handed them. Feminism tells men they can’t be raped, abused or hurt because they’re men. Feminism tells men they’re little more than dildos that help us reproduce. Feminism tells men this is equality.

                   and these are just some of the minor reasons why i am very against it. I ACTUALLY WANT EQUALITY AND WE DO NOT HAVE TO FACE THE SAME PROBLEMS TO ACHIEVE THAT!


While your message at first is clear and cool, your jab at feminism is clearly misguided. If you seriously think its just ‘buh womenz bringing men down and wanting to rule the world!” then you’re reeeeallllyyyy misinformed and should probably get off tumblr or educate yourself with better sources.

>”If women earn less than men, hire them for everything and save money” ….what? How does this solve anything? 

>”i am independent, and nothing in this fucking country tells me that when a guy wants my ass that i have to bend over” Well congrats. YOU have never felt pressured to give sex, YOU have never noticed the hundreds of commercials, media attention, and cases of women/girls being pursued, pressured, drugged, and coerced into sex. And if you’re seriously in denial that there is NO informal/social education is taught to certain genders concerning certain aspects (like sex) then it’s no wonder you’re misguided.

>”But nowhere is rape taught as acceptable.Rape is illegal and is seen as a crime by all people in society.” I would loooovvee to believe this. But in every questioning of female rape victims, they’re always asked what theyre wearing, what theyre past experiences were. The amount of ACTUAL PERPETRATORS of rape in jail compared to them being prosecuted? Yea, a lot less. Just search the issue and pages of stories will come up of girls who are too scared to come out bc of what people will say, of girls who have tried to get help and were turned away bc oh the boy who raped them was a son of someone in power. And yes, MEN GET raped too. Sometimes by women. But if you look men are the majority of the rapists. This isn’t even just a ‘feminist issue’ its a fucking society issue. And you denying it helps NO ONE.

>The entirety of your last paragraphs are bullshit. If THAT is the message you get from feminism, you are listening to the wrong people or your judgement is sooooo clouded everything you hear is turned around. Feminism doesn’t PUT women as victims, it points out how they are portrayed in society (media, books, movies, careers, general home life). It doesn’t tell men to be bowing down and serving, it points out how taught masculinity (of ALL kinds) is harmful to EVERYBODY. 

Your view of this isn’t uncommon, and it’s quite sad it exists. Though it comes from somewhere and it’s sad that people claiming to be part of feminism is making you believe it. But just like those feminists who view the entirety of man as awful, potential rapists, your view of them as rabid, man hating, villains. 

>”If women earn less than men, hire them for everything and save money” ….what? How does this solve anything?


My comment: I didn’t say that to “solve anything” (legally there isn’t anything to solve). i said that to exemplify how stupid you people are for believing in a gender-based wage-gap. Let me dumb it down for you. What i was saying is that if there was a gender-based wage gap (which there isn’t) companies/business owners would hire women more for everything because they would have to pay women less for the work they do. BUT, because there ISN’T a gender-based wage gap (or law that states that women will get paid less than men) THAT SCENARIO DOESN’T HAPPEN. Do you understand? Since there is NO GENDER-BASED WAGE GAP, a scenario such as “women being hired more because business owners and companies would  legally get to pay them less” DOES NOT HAPPEN.

The wage gap is a result of  women’s choices:

  • Women sacrifice pay for all sorts of reasons including security, safety, flexibility, and fulfillment.

  • Men choose higher-paying fields and occupations.

  • Women more likely to choose careers in lower paying fields such as education and health care

  • Men are more likely than women to pursue areas of specialization with higher levels of stress.

  • Men are also far more likely to choose careers that involve physical labor, overnight and weekend shifts, dangerous conditions, as well as uncomfortable, isolated, outdoor, and undesirable locations.

  • Men work more hours(9%) than women

  • Women spending fewer hours than men at work doing the same jobs, such as taking more sick and vacation time, working less overtime and fewer nights, weekends, and holidays.

  • Read the fucking link


Instead of pursuing a degree in Gender/Women’s studies maybe you should help close the wage gap by pursuing a degree in Computer science, Construction, Petroleum Engineering and other stressful, dirty and dangerous male dominated job.



>”i am independent, and nothing in this fucking country tells me that when a guy wants my ass that i have to bend over” Well congrats. YOU have never felt pressured to give sex, YOU have never noticed the hundreds of commercials, media attention, and cases of women/girls being pursued, pressured, drugged, and coerced into sex. And if you’re seriously in denial that there is NO informal/social education is taught to certain genders concerning certain aspects (like sex) then it’s no wonder you’re misguided.


My comment: Exactly how is feminism going to help a girl who was pressured into having sex? Seriously, tell me how feminism is going to give her personality a 180, and turn her from a doormat into a person who doesn’t give into pressure. I have noticed all those things and guess what! I’VE NOTICED IT HAPPENS TO BOTH FUCKING GENDERS! ever heard “all guys want is sex” , “dude are you still a virgin? What a loser”. Have you ever seen the movies, commercials, music  videos where a guy is just standing there with his shirt off or half naked while a girl uses and abuses him (i.e drugs, whips, standing on him, hitting him, leashes, calling him a dog) to “make things sexy” (simple examples would be: beyonce, rihanna, marina and the diamonds)

Both genders have attacks against our desires, men aren’t portrayed as being with larger women, or very unattractive women. Men are portrayed as being big, tall, and/or muscled, with hot super model babes on their arm. That forces a standard that they feel they have to live up to. Women are portrayed as willing to be with a man because of a certain trait and liking someone’s looks is usually frowned upon, unless, of course she fixes the man and he gets smarter, stronger, kinder, whatever.


BOTH GENDERS FACE THESE ISSUES! (but feminists only care about the females and pin the problem on males-as you have just done.)



>”But nowhere is rape taught as acceptable.Rape is illegal and is seen as a crime by all people in society.” I would loooovvee to believe this. But in every questioning of female rape victims, they’re always asked what theyre wearing, what theyre past experiences were. The amount of ACTUAL PERPETRATORS of rape in jail compared to them being prosecuted? Yea, a lot less. Just search the issue and pages of stories will come up of girls who are too scared to come out bc of what people will say, of girls who have tried to get help and were turned away bc oh the boy who raped them was a son of someone in power. And yes, MEN GET raped too. Sometimes by women. But if you look men are the majority of the rapists. This isn’t even just a ‘feminist issue’ its a fucking society issue. And you denying it helps NO ONE.


  • My commentary: I am not, and never did deny that people get raped, wtf? what i said: “rape goes both ways. IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT A GENDER ISSUE!” The problem is that feminists (like you, as you have just done this) are trying to pin rape on the male gender and trying to minimize/erase male victims and women perpetrators. An example of how you, a feminist, have just proven my point would be what you have just written: “And yes, MEN GET raped too. Sometimes by women. But if you look men are the majority of the rapists.” see what you’ve just done there? I applaud you for at least acknowledging that men get raped though. There is also something called innocent until PROVEN guilty. Look it up, it may answer your concerns as to why officers question victims of any crime. ^^



HERE’S SOME  FOOD FOR THOUGHT, HOW BOUT YOU EDUCATE YOURSELF A BIT MORE SWEETIE:   

You wanna talk about rape culture?


Rape culture is women getting away with rape because “the man probably liked it.”


Rape culture is women getting away with child molestation because “the boy probably liked it.”


Rape culture is women believing that women don’t rape.


Rape culture is women believing that women can’t rape.


Rape culture is a woman raping a man and then demanding that he pay child support for the child he did not consent to father.


Rape culture is the lack of “rape by envelopment,” being classified by national rape laws.


Rape culture is believing that all men are one event away from being rapists.


Rape culture is not wanting people to be prepared to defend themselves in the instance of an attack.


If you believe otherwise, you are an idiot and, more than likely, a bigot. Men do not rape, rapists rape, because they are mentally disturbed individuals who do not care about the laws that we have in place against rape. You want to know why I don’t agree with Feminism? Because Feminism does not believe in equal consequences for equal crimes. “ -oldmancaleb



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CDC - National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey 2010

  • total amount of rapists including made to penetrate= 2,537,000

  • total amount of female rapists under these terms=1,003,464

  • total percentage of female rapists=39.55%  [which fits right into the roughly 40% number on the poster]

  • total amount of victims of rape including made to penetrate=2,537,000

  • total amount of male victims=1,267,000

  • total percentage of male victims of rape=49.94%  [0.6% less than a full 50%, however, those numbers of 1,267,000 for women and 1,267,000 for men are weighted both at 1.1%, so that’s where a nice round 50% comes from] - cobblepot

RAPE ISN’T A GENDER ISSUE! IT’S NOT A WOMEN’S ISSUE!!! NOT ONLY MEN RAPE! RAPISTS RAPE! YOU DO NOT “TEACH MEN HOW TO NOT FUCKING RAPE!!” YOU CAN NOT TEACH A MURDERER HOW TO NOT FUCKING MURDER! ANY GENDER CAN RAPE, ONLY RAPISTS RAPE, RAPISTS CAN COME IN ANY GENDER, SHAPE AND FUCKING SIZE! STOP! ~okay hun ^^


>The entirety of your last paragraphs are bullshit. If THAT is the message you get from feminism, you are listening to the wrong people or your judgement is sooooo clouded everything you hear is turned around. Feminism doesn’t PUT women as victims, it points out how they are portrayed in society (media, books, movies, careers, general home life). It doesn’t tell men to be bowing down and serving, it points out how taught masculinity (of ALL kinds) is harmful to EVERYBODY


  • My Commentary: That is the message i get from every feminist post I’ve seen and even the bull shit that guy wrote on my post. Masculinity is just as harmful as femininity. If you want to erase masculinity, you better be working on erasing femininity. both aspects have their good and bad point. That is yet another thing you feminists do not seem to understand. Men and women are portrayed in certain ways (good and bad), both genders face problems socially, both genders have their privileges. Every feminist post i see talks about how “i’m oppressed” as though they want me to seek oppression. Feminists baby women, an example would be in the case of drunken consent or, in feminists eyes, “drunken rape”:

  • Feminists label women as weak, stupid imbeciles who can’t even do what is expected of a child. Here I talk about the instance on drunken “rape”. it is absolutely the most deeming argument that i have ever seen and makes me feel ashamed. I mean women actually hold up signs and scream that “I’m aren’t responsible for what they do or what happens to them while I’m are drunk.” “I don’t have to protect themselves from psychos trying to rape me…tell psychos not to rape.” Why the hell do you think we tell children not to talk to strangers and to look both ways before crossing the streets. Why don’t we just tell peodophiles not to kidnap children and tell drivers not to run them over. Children are expected more of than women are in feminists eyes. that is so sick and stupid. Also why is it that a woman who is drunk of her rocker and has sex with someone she normally wouldn’t have sex with can state rape and land his sorry ass in prison, but a man who is drunk off his rocker and does the same thing with a woman, as to suck it up and label it as “a bad night” or something. that’s really freaking stupid. in the eyes of feminists, a woman who is intoxicated and  does something she normally wouldn’t do when sober is the victim…but when a man is intoxicated and does something he normally wouldn’t do it’s still his fault, his actions, a responsibility he has to own up to? what!? how is that freaking fair!? that is not only unjust, but also deeming to women. They are saying while I’m drunk i am not capable of being responsible for me…but while a man is drunk he is capable for being responsible for him (and in some instances me.)


Literally, feminists care more about a piece of dog shit on the side of the road than they care about men. A few examples would be:

THAT IS NOT FUCKING EQUALITY! You seem to be the misguided one here. look up the actions of your own movement, CALL THEM OUT AND FIGHT AGAINST THEIR UNJUST AND SEXIST WAYS! That is what i do. so STFU. ~<3 



I’ve already reblogged this but it got better. 

This is why I am Anti-Feminist.

Feminism is inherently evil and promotes a message of hate. 

I think it’s time we start saying this more openly. 

it got alotbetter

This is fucking disgusting.  All you anti-feminist people are assholes.  You are worse than shit.

There are definitely asshole feminists.  But that doesn’t excuse your bullshit.

That’s all I can say on this right now because it’s just so fucking terrible.

(Source: recitethis.com)

http://damaged--justice.tumblr.com/post/66708954810/this-sexual-orientation-business-is-getting-out-of

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You are a disgusting person. Asexual is a valid sexual orientation.  It has nothing to do with reproduction, just like homosexuality has nothing to do with reproduction.  If you literally don’t know what it means to be asexual, fucking go to wikipedia.  But I suspect you understand what it is and you just want to be an asshole.